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What You're Actually Paying For
Published 2 months ago • 4 min read
Edition 49 | 25 August 2026
Welcome to The Perspective, a weekly note on work, leadership, and clarity. The aim isn't to add another voice to the noise. It's to slow down for a moment, look at something carefully, and see what's actually underneath. Some editions land practical, some more reflective. All chosen to help you navigate complexity with a steadier hand.
This week's note comes out of a LinkedIn post from last week: an observation about airport lounges that turned into something bigger about what premium services actually sell.
What You're Actually Paying For
I was in an airport lounge a few weeks ago, waiting for a flight, and thinking about what these places actually sell.
The advertising is always about the food, the coffee, the wifi, the workspaces, occasionally the showers. That's the pitch. That's what you're supposedly paying for.
But if you look honestly at what a lounge actually delivers, the food is usually average (at best), the coffee is fine but nothing special, the wifi is now widely available in the main terminal, and most travellers don't shower at airports.
What the lounge actually sells is quiet. Cleaner bathrooms. A calmer environment before the flight. Fewer people. A place to think, or not think, without being pushed through a crowd.
The pattern shows up almost everywhere premium services exist.
Business class isn't really about the meal. It's about the space, the sleep, the not-being-touched by strangers for eleven hours. Private healthcare isn't really about the doctor; the doctor is often the same doctor. It's about the shorter queue, the private room, the appointment starting when the appointment was booked. Members' clubs aren't really about the coffee or the food. They're about knowing who else is likely to be there, and who isn't. Private schools, private banking, private gyms: every premium version of a mass-market thing is doing something similar. Marketed on features. Bought for absence.
The absence being bought is usually the same shortlist: crowds, uncertainty, friction, time wasted, exposure to people the buyer would rather not deal with, the ambient noise of a mass-market experience.
This matters more when you cross into professional services, because most professional-services businesses market almost entirely on features: capability, methodology, deliverables, sector expertise, past clients. Which are real. But often not what the client is actually buying.
What clients often pay a premium for, in advisory or consulting or professional services, is the absence of ambiguity. The absence of political risk in the room. The absence of having to explain the problem to someone who doesn't already understand it. The absence of the meeting after the meeting that most junior advisors quietly generate. The senior fee is often the price of not needing to worry about a specific set of things any more.
Which is worth naming because most pricing decisions become clearer once you name what the client is actually escaping. And most pricing failures happen when the seller keeps marketing the feature while the buyer is paying for the absence.
The airport lounge doesn't advertise its quiet. It advertises its lattes. Which is fine: it works, mostly, because everyone who's ever been in the main terminal knows what they're really paying to escape.
The rest of the professional world is not always so lucky. The features get marketed. The absence is often what actually converts. And the gap between the two is where a lot of premium businesses end up quietly underselling themselves.
👉 I shared the shorter version of this on LinkedIn last week:
The keynote I delivered last month at the ICZ Executive Forum in George is now up on my website. Titled Climate Change and Insurance, it was delivered to Zimbabwean insurance CEOs and their regulator, and it's about how insurance industries built for one kind of economy have to change when the underlying environment stops behaving the way the product was designed for.
The page has the video, an executive summary, and the full paper.
Went to Adrian Gore's book launch last week: a good conversation that circled through each of the four principles without ever quite settling on one. Which fits, because the book itself has turned out to be different from what I expected when I picked it up.
I'd started reading it the way I read most non-fiction: comfortably, on the couch, the way you'd read a story. A few pages before bed. What I've realised, working through the first principle properly, is that it doesn't reward that mode. It's closer to a textbook than a memoir: dense, demanding of attention, and probably worth reading in a different physical posture entirely. Desk, notes, dedicated hour, not much distraction.
Which is a small useful reminder. Not all books are read the same way. Sometimes the medium matches the message, and the reading mode has to catch up to the writing mode. I may end up getting the audio version as well, just so I can hear an argument being built rather than only see it constructed on the page.
Closing Perspective
Most things that get sold are not the things that get bought.
The feature list on the marketing page is rarely the reason someone paid. The reason is usually more human, more specific, and often more embarrassing to name: a friction they didn't want, a room they didn't want to be in, a stress they didn't want to carry.
The businesses that understand this quietly outperform the ones that keep polishing the feature list.
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